Don't be disappointed with yourself for laying things out as they are. Standing your ground, eg: having a discussion about your children ISN'T something he can simply blow off cuz she's around. So good for you.

You also have kicked more of the lid off of his little adventure. I'm finding that because I've taken away some of that clandestine behavior, it seems to have taken the shine off of H's view of it. There is something to having the secrecy that appeals to them, when it's taken away... it seems to lose it's shine. Strange.

Anyhoo... Sometimes you have to go anti DB to skate round a sitch. I think you did just fine!

Abs smile

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.