I tried to call him this afternoon and once again like this entire week...no answer. I wanted to talk to him to find out when he is coming home and to coordinate the kids christmas gifts. He was supposed to be getting D10 something and I wasn't sure if he had bought it (he hadn't). I only have tomorrow to try to get all the kids gifts (on top of everything else for the holidays...so I was a little amped up)
He finally called tonight after telling me, "I'll call in a couple hours", "I'll call soon", etc. It was obvious to me he was with OW.
So, when he calls, he sounds muffly and I asked him..."where are you? are you hiding in a bathroom?" He says "no". I say, "you don't have to be afraid to call me...I assume you were at OW's this week". He hesitates, then says, "well, not for ALL of the week". I then say something like, "It's not like we haven't been in this situation for 5 months and we don't all know each other...I think you should be able to call me when you are with her". I also added a couple comments about his bubbles colliding.
We then went on to have a reasonably good conversation about the kids gifts. He said he got me a gift and I said I hadn't gotten him anything yet. I told him the kids wanted me to get him a wedding ring and we kind of joked about that.
Blah...I didn't feel like I got really angry with him, but I think I was kind of bitchy and I don't like that I let that show through. On the other hand..it's the holidays and he is being a jerk...so maybe I don't care.
I need to get my DB hat back on!
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012
