WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

[25yearsmlc]

let her know in an upbeat way that you are getting him some shoes for the weather coming...

marvel at how fast they grow. No blame...no guilting...if anything it'll backfire.

Just let her know he does not need a 3rd pair for Xmas since you are getting him some for 2moro...

And btw, YOU can discuss what they need in advance too. This isn't just HER job.

I mean, Couldn't she argue that YOU didn't tell her something or that YOU should have thought of this?

I'm just asking b/c you seem to think this exclusively reflects badly on Her...

and that's Not true and it's Not helping either of you or the sitch.

Okay?