I have been divorced for two years. Had left my husband because we lived in a marriage in name only.He finally moved into the other bedroom after an argument over our son.
After a year of him living like that and, anger building up in us I left one day.
After three years of not hearing a word from him I filed for divorce. Before the court date I tried talking to him he was just so disconnected.
He would not stay in the same room that I would be in. When we were at my daughter's house he followed her around so that he would not be in same room with me alone.
After we broke up he went to live with an old man that he took care of for rent.Since then the man has passed away and, he told his daughter to let my x stay in the house.Now this woman does so much for my x even letting my daughter live there too. My daughter does pay rent. Well, I have the feeling that she is interested in my x. For I feel that she does too much for him. Even giving him the airplane ticket for him to go do a temporary job in Florida.
There was also another woman that was interested in him but, he paid no mind to her.
I have always felt love for him but, I also had a lot of peace and was in prayer for my marriageso, I have been waiting for him to make the first move since I was always the one running things. At first he just went along then he responded with anger.
Now with this woman showing so much attention to him I am worried. Everyone tells me they have nothing going on but friendship even my daugher says that.
He now is friendlier towards me. Sometimes I will be at my daughters babysitting and he and I will be alone. He will start a conversation with me now. He has never been a romantic so he will talk about maybe his medical conditions or my car.I also have a hard time. I would like to flirt with him but, am afraid that he may not accept it.
For a while I wanted to smile at him which I do now. What else can I do that will not be so obvious that I am trying to flirt with him.
In all the time that we have been separated plus divorced neither one of us has been involved with anyone else. I feel that he still loves me.
