And, as a side note, I bet there are a million people who wish they could load their sitch into a simulator and spend hours trying different scenarios in an effort to see what the magic word would have been to save their marriage. Maybe someone will create an App for it. The truth is, you can wonder your whole life what went wrong and if what you did was wrong. The fact is: you are human and imperfect. You did what was right for you at the time. You can't second guess that. You were also dealing with another human who is imperfect and there is no predicting his/her reaction on a given day. And in most cases, you were dealing with a very irrational being. As one wise person told me;" you cannot expect rational behavior from an irrational being."
Hindsight may be 20/20 but all that looking back will make you stumble as you move forward.
