I think the gifts and card are too much right now. It feels like your wife is getting curious about what you are up to so I think the gifts might be over kill right now. Maybe just give her the socks and the download codes in a card that says Merry Christmas. When I here "Thinking of you" it sounds risky and she may take it a pursuing. Just my 2cents.

Great job not drinking. Keep it up

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