25 I am trying not to be or sound resentful. I guess like I said in my previous post she told me we would start slow. On my sons bday she told me there was no us. Just hard to be lied too like that.
remember the adage here, "believe nothing they SAY and only half of what they DO"....and that goes for her believing in you. If all you are doing is SAYING things would be better, that is not enough to get her back, imo...
let me ask you, has it been working thus far? If not, try something different. DB 101...
This past week when she would tell me she was overwhelmed it just breaks me inside cause I know if I paid attention or did things in the past that this would not be like this and I would be with my family. Everyday this week I have asked her how she was doing and if there was anyway for me to help. more "asking"...Man, this just does Not impress her...(or me). Don't wait for her to accept your offer or to invite you. Just DO things to help and expect nothing in return.
No expectations...or they'll show and it'll come off as pursuit-which is what it would be. Instead DO things b/c you are NOW a NEW man...not b/c you expect her to come back but because you want to DO these things...
make sense?
She gave me teachers presents and family presents from my son. Took care of them. But she said she has to do it all herself. We used to be a good team. be a good partner without her asking you for help.
The resent is her seeing someone else and not giving me the chance to prove myself to her.
you have been given the chance
but all you have done is ASK her IF you can do something that she is not in the mood to ask of, or accept from you
AND you make promises about the future.
She's heard those before. She needs to SEE YOU BEING DIFFERENT, NOT TALKING ABOUT IT...
hope this helps.
I know you are sincere but something's not clicking yet.
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