I screwed up with my H by texting back and forth. He text me:
H: i know we joked about it yesterday, but I dont think i should p/u D today
M: I know. I had planned on it.
H: k. also, can we please go back to the previous D schedule until u start school again?
M: i do not want to bc i feel this schedule is best. It will be in her interest. this is not a discussion for texting messaging. may I ask why?
H: well, if it's not a conversation for txting, i will answer ur question 2nite when i call u to discuss
M: Now why are you being an a$$
M: Look i start school in 2 wks so why bother.
H: OMG! no, i'm really not! I am following ur directions, period. u say, "It's not a convo for txting." I don't want to discuss this at work, so i'll call tonight.
M: reread it. maybe its the tone
H: YOU CAN'T READ TONE IN A TXT MSG! unless it's in all caps, then the sender is screaming
M: then maybe its just me bc i am not feeling well. btw thanks for asking how i am feeling.
H: yeah, its u alright! wish u would see it before u go off on me and pi$$ me off!
H: shut up
M: WHATEVER
M: hey if i was grace, jerri or brandy or theresa would u ask me how i was feeling?
M: did i hit a sore spot with ur friends. u always did put them before ur family
H: no, ur just being a b1tch and i want u to be quiet. sorry u dont feel well, but dont take it out on me.
So what do I do? Do I apologize or what? How much damage have I done?
