I feel really bad right now for what I have done. Have I taken this dettaching thing too far. Am I pushing him away just as he is starting to seek me out again?
No, it's just that this is a new behavior for you and you feel what most LBS's experience (pushing the WAS away). If your WAH wants you bad enough to straighten up his act, he'll find a way. Don't be afraid. He needs to start getting a picture of what life would be without you.
Continue to remind yourself that if WAH gets you back too easily.....you stand the risk of going through all of this again, and probably much sooner than you'd think.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
