This is a long winded way of saying that the growth comes over time, but it happens a whole lot faster (at least for me) if I use every tool available.
I am finding out that the passage of time alone won't do it (at least for me). I'm finding out that I have to take positive actions that are in my best interest 'during' this passage of time. It requires real effort on my part, as opposed to just enduring the passage of time, in order for me to heal from hearbreak.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
