WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

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I am going up for xmas morning for presents and breakfast, which I will help out with if she lets me. I used to let her sleep in on Saturdays and I would get up with kids feed them and get them all set as well as make something for breakfast. Sundays would be my day and she would do the same.

I have said it before I know it will be hard work for us if we reconcile, BUT I am used to getting my hands dirty and I am a forgiving man. How I was raised. People ask where have all the gentlemen gone. Here is one of them, how I was raised by my parents. I know with couples therapy for us and private on our own as well as all of you I know I will be ok whatever the outcome has for my future.
I will even see if she wants to do some of these course I read about once or twice a year. Just to make sure everything is ok and we learn and grow from this.