wife had affair and now a divorce as well

[25yearsmlc]

Witz

I posted on your other thread which seems to be the main one. Even so, I thought I'd post a brief note here-

Have a good holiday and if you can, stay "in the moment."

I recall my first crazy Christmas of h's MLC, and how angry and hurt I was. I was not able to fake my way through it and it still bugs me b/c I did make a choice to stay hurt.

I mean, I didn't fully "get" DBing yet, so I was not able to compartmentalize the way I needed to.

But I learned! So will you.

Be in the present, enjoy THAT moment...and in time, you'll see that you created memories for your children at the very least.

Sometimes you'll have done a lot more good than that, but even if not, creating good memories for your kids IS a very worthy goal.

So, "be here now" and have a great Channukkah. (I never know how to spell that b/c I think I've seen it 3 different ways...so I hope that's close enough).


((( )))