Its been a bit since Ive checked in. I’ve been real busy with all the holiday stuff and church rehearsals.
I hope that everyone on this forum, despite of all the emotional turmoil that MLC causes, is getting by with a little holiday cheer.
As far as my sitch goes, Im seeing some changes. And let me tell you all, having the right legal advice makes ALL the difference in the WORLD!
If I knew then what I know now, I would of already been living in my OWN apt. All the right legal info backed me up in taking a stand against her bullying. Once this happened, her demeanor started changing. Her venom spewing is still there, but the difference is, it doesn’t phase me in the slightest bit! When she starts her nasty texts, I just don’t reply. When she calls, CLICK! I just hang up.
So, once she saw that her spewing stopped affecting me, she started grasping for straws! She started using the kids again.
She started telling me that they hate me! That Im a dead beat father and they love OM more than me. LOL, of course, when they are with me, it’s a total different story. Actually, the kids ask me NOT to take them because they rather stay with me!
When she saw that her new tactic didn’t work, she started sending OM outside to interact with me!
Guys, it was the most HILARIOUS scene I have ever witnessed.
OM (26 yrs old) Steps out of the house with W behind him telling him to “GO, TALK TO HIM”.
OM looks back at her with an expression on his face that screams “Please! Don’t make me do this! I don’t want to die!”.
OM walks out holding their new puppy in his arms and approaches me. As he’s getting closer, the deer in the head lights look gets bigger and bigger! I get closer and he stops around 8 feet away from me and says “ Hi, this is my new puppy”.
LMAO! I really had to hold it in!
Then he said “ Im going to mate her when she gets older. I’ll give you a puppy if you want…”
I simply replied, No thanks…
He said “ok, well, I got to go. Merry Xmas”.
When I looked, W was watching from the window upstairs.
I believe shes starting to see my confidence return and nothing that she says or does is not affecting me in anyway.
Now, every time she interacts with me via texts or phone, she starts her the convo with…
Hi, do you mind if…
How’s everything?
Can you do me a favor?
Please, can you….
Also, whenever I drop of the kids, I see her at the window with her little fingers bringing down the shades to see me.
At times, she also tries to come outside with OM holding his hand and trying to make a spectacle of herself. You can tell OM is TOTALLY uncomfortable with it!
It seems to me like shes making him do it. When I see this, my inner strength grows more and more knowing that its not bothering me in the slightest.
When I spoke to my lawyer the other day, he told me that she never filed for the D and that it didn’t make any sense to him what W was trying to do.
When I asked W why didn’t she file, she replied that since I got the hot shot lawyer, that its should be ME filing for it!
I told her “ Absolutley NOT! You wanted this, so you file! You are going to be held accountable for this not me!”
She replied with “You are always lecturing me like Im a child. Stop patronizing me”
With that said, I left the ball in her court.
Night before last, I was at a friend’s house doing a gift exchange and I got a text that said “Please hear this song”.
Here are the lyrics to the song she sent me….
Title is “Monster you made”
"Monster You Made" Take a good look at me now Do you still recognize me Am I so different inside This world is trying to change me And I admit I don't want to change with it And I admit I can't go on like this anymore
Erase this monster I've become Forgive me for all the damage done It's not over Say it's not over I'm begging for mercy I'm only the monster you made me
I'm better alone now See I'm torn from my mistakes And I stop believing that I could ever make things change How much can I take When I know that it hurts you How long can I wait When I cant go on like this anymore
Erase this monster I've become Forgive me for all the damage done It's not over Say it's not over I'm begging for mercy I'm only the monster you made me
Because who I am Isn't who I used to be And I'm not invincible I'm not indestructible I'm only human Can't you see The beauty in me
Take a good look at me now Can't you see I've changed
Erase this monster I've become Forgive me for all the damage done It's not over Say it's not over I'm begging for mercy I'm only the monster you made me
Far away through the pain I hear the angels calling Far away through the pain I see my demons falling
Far away through the pain I hear the angels calling Far away through the pain I see my demons falling
Erase this Erase this Erase this monster you made me
I really don’t get it. She is claiming that she is the happiest shes ever been. Her and other man are plastered all over the internet and she also told me that shes very in love with him. OH WELL…..
Im just continuing in my merry little way doing my GAL stuff.
Im getting ready for my mission trip to Haiti in a couple of months and Im going shopping today for my sponsored child in Guatemala. Hopefully, Ill meet her soon as well.
My GAL’s are just trying to be the best dad I can be, get in better shape and help out as many people in church that are going through the same thing I am. When I listen to their story, Its very true whats said on this forum… All stories are the same, yet very unique and they ALL have the same darn script!
To everyone, have a wonderful holiday!
God bless!
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
