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Yet here I am about to lose it all.


Nah... you're not going to lose it all Rick... no matter what you will still have your daughter. You will still have an R with your W. It will be different perhaps, but you will still be connected (through your d). There will be weddings, babies, birthdays, graduations, and so on... but you're not going to lose it all. It just may be different.

This isn't about losing... it's about what we have changing into something else. Our R's with our wives aren't lost... they simply change into a different kind of R. If something's lost you have to find it before you can do anything with it. But if something's changed then, if it changed once, it can always change again.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD