Hey Irish,

Merry Christmas to you too!

I LOVE your Dr. Seuss quote ... he's actually one of the most insightful authors I've read! I've got two personal faves right now from him ...
Originally Posted By: The late, great Dr. Seuss
“I have heard there are troubles of more than one kind. Some come from ahead and some come from behind. But I've bought a big bat. I'm all ready you see. Now my troubles are going to have troubles with me!”
... and ...
Originally Posted By: Dr. Seuss yet again...
“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go...”


Sweetie, for the record, it would irk the sh*t out of me too. That's not immature ... it's human! It also doesn't mean you're not healing or doing what you need to do for you. Progress is progress, however small you may feel it is, it's still forward motion. I hope you find as much support as you need, here or elsewhere smile ... but I'd hate to see you go. You haven't just taken support from this forumn Irish, you've given plenty too. My thread hasn't been about my ex in ages, but I still find the personal growth and support here amazing, I don't know what I would have done without y'all, and frankly, wouldn't want to find out, lol.

Take care Irish ... I know you've got great things ahead of you! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Peace
PEI


Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc