even though we harp like you are messing up, you are doing quite well for the amount of time you've been here.
OTOH we know your w is ahead of you and so you have to catch up so you DO have to really "outperform" yourself.
No more talking at all. I'm glad she said ANYTHING about what she needs...it's not as definitely over, (as she said just weeks ago...see?? Believe NONE of what she says....unless of course, it's good!
Seriously,
we all were where you were. I backslid a lot more b/c I took longer to get HERE to this site.
We'd seen 2 mc's before coming here and finding a 3rd mc, who was more pro-DBing..
the first mc's said h was "acting selfish/single" and pretty much that was that.
I felt vindicated...I felt "right". He WAS being selfish.
But where does that leave ME? What was I supposed to DO with that diagnosis?
So finding this site changed ME....and what I Did. That's empowering. So
then the dynamic changed...and that's that.
Hope this makes sense. Will post more later.
Big hugs! ((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
