You asked how she's baiting you with her comments. Here's the explanation of that.
She implies that you wouldn't have been able to make your changes with her around.
That's the bait. Why is that bait?
If you agree with her, then you validate her decision to move out. Because she's moved out, you've been able to become a better person, so her decision to leave was the right one.
If you don't agree with her, now you're arguing and that validates her decision to move out.
You can't win. As Joshua rightly discovered, "the only way to win is not to play" (I'll buy you a Coke if you can identify that reference)
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
