What else could I have done?

[antlers]

It is time to let go. Forgive her for her wrongs just as you expected her to forgive you, yours. And accept that she has moved on.

I want to. I'm working on it. My youngest daughter recently told me that her mom "brainwashed" her and my son for over a year and a half against me after she left...she poisoned my kids against me for over a year and a half! And they are messed up because of that. That's not easy to forgive...do you agree?

And forgiving her for her cheating and lying, especially while I was working to make things better for all of us...that's not easy to forgive. Do you agree?

Do you think it's necessary to forgive her these things in order for me to let go and move on? She hasn't forgiven me anything, and she's let go and moved on according to her and her mother!

I really want to do whatever it takes...I just don't want to feel like this anymore.