Ic4- I was reading your thread from the beginning and I found this towards the end of September.
For so long, I focused primarily on H's problems he brought to our marriage, but when I take a very honest look at the situation, I see how many of my behaviors have contributed to the breakdown of our marriage as well.
I felt the same way. I was so focused on the problems he brought to this marriage, that I was not looking at my own behavior. In addition, once I started to focus on my behavior, I started to find peace within myself.
