Hey Gunny! Hope you are well. I'm sorry to hijack but feel the need to comment to labug.

"I hurt him a lot with my irritability and resentment but I told him once, "I'm not doing this TO you, I'm just doing it."

I'm sure you probably realize this labug, but isn't that comment above just like saying, I'm not doing this to you, I'm just doing it, so tough sheat, suck it up and leave me the hell alone!

I'm sure that is how it was interpreted anyway. Hopefully you see that.

(((hugs)))

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