I didn't add in my last post and I do want to be clear that I'm not putting any measure on this, just simply stated as is:
I have been clear with my family that their R with my W is between them. I know that aside from my mom, I don't think anyone in my family don't engage my W in considerate conversation or even participate in social gatherings with her.
Their choice, I'm fine with that.
So I do want to be clear that some people "pick sides", others run from both parties, and still others do the best they can to remain neutral...
