They really are amazing, arent they? And by amazing I mean as@es - hee hee.

My inlaws did the same after 30 years. Wrote me off like yesterday's trash - including my two nephews whom I adored and who I thought felt the same.

But, their problem. I know the truth and I suspect deep down, they do, too. Easier for them this way, I guess. Hurt alot for a long while.

As for the email from your xh, I think he is just nuts.

Dont blame you for feeling as you do. You know the drill, get it out and then continue on.