But this one "My sitch has always seemed different to me. There was no OM, no affair, no evil deed, no malice, in short, Alice was a true WAS in every sense of the word. During our separation, I didn’t want to do anything that might hurt my wife or make her mad, in hopes she would change her mind and stop this horrible thing from happening. Instead, I was the one who got hurt by the process – by not being proactive. Now, I find myself obsessing about all the things I should have done differently to protect myself."
Wow, i thought i was reading about myself. Good or bad, mine was similar. No OM. affair. nothing. W just 'got tired'
Anyway...Have enjoy your holidays!!
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
