I feel really bad right now for what I have done. Have I taken this dettaching thing too far. Am I pushing him away just as he is starting to seek me out again? Please help. Thanks!
Heck no! You are playing this quite right - there is nothing to feel bad about. I mean, not to be petty - but let him worry about what YOU'RE doing for a change. To me, that's part of the point of detaching and GAL. It seems like he is not fully comfortable with the notion of you carrying on with your life -good. Let it give him a chance to think about HIS actions and the consequences of HIS decisions. You get on that boat and have the freaking time of your life! No ship-to-shore phone calls!
