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Re: Too little, Too late. any chance? #2206993 12/21/11 07:48 PM
Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 982 Wisconsin W workinghardguy Member
workinghardguy Member W Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 982 Wisconsin	Quote: Then it really hit me: he's to young to remember us as 'together', he will never know his mom and dad as married- that kills me. There's a fine line in DBing I think... and it's tied up in the above quote. You can't abandon all hope... otherwise what's the point? At the same time you can't cling to that hope and allow it to paralyze you. The mindset is more a matter of keeping hope and faith (and lots and lots and lots of faith) that things will work out and will work out as you want them to. But realizing that if they don't you will be ok, your kids will be ok, and you will thrive. This isn't a death sentence nor is it the end of all creation. It's almost Zen... when you stop being so invested in the outcome you get closer to the outcome you want. And eventually how you want them to work out may, or may not, involve your husband. And it can always be worse I'm 99% certain my W will get a New Year's kiss, but it won't be from me and it will likely be from a man she is desperately trying to attract. But that's her choice and path... Though watching her try to attract him and watching him ignore her is starting to become good theater... Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD

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Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/13/11 01:41 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/14/11 02:12 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 03:00 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 03:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Some Day	12/14/11 04:40 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 05:24 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/14/11 08:13 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/15/11 01:34 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/16/11 12:35 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/16/11 04:04 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/16/11 03:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/17/11 04:51 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/18/11 12:11 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/18/11 12:54 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/18/11 04:38 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/18/11 05:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/18/11 06:05 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Harrier	12/18/11 07:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/19/11 02:06 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	kolja	12/19/11 03:10 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/19/11 02:45 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Harrier	12/19/11 02:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 04:06 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/20/11 05:39 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	PERSEVERANCE	12/20/11 06:31 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	seeking answers	12/20/11 10:05 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/20/11 02:15 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 02:28 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	PERSEVERANCE	12/20/11 03:07 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/20/11 04:08 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/20/11 04:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 04:38 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/20/11 06:06 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/20/11 07:08 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 11:02 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Some Day	12/20/11 11:11 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/20/11 11:20 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/20/11 11:44 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 03:01 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/21/11 03:51 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 04:03 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/21/11 04:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/21/11 04:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	kolja	12/21/11 04:46 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 07:11 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/21/11 07:28 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:48 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	any chance?	12/21/11 07:37 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	workinghardguy	12/21/11 07:48 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:57 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:07 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/21/11 08:04 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/21/11 10:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:13 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/22/11 03:31 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:47 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/22/11 07:39 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 08:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/23/11 04:47 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/23/11 02:23 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/23/11 02:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/23/11 05:31 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/23/11 10:25 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/24/11 12:54 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/24/11 01:28 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/24/11 04:42 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/24/11 04:44 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/24/11 05:55 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/24/11 04:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/25/11 05:15 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/25/11 06:21 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/25/11 01:05 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/26/11 09:06 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	2thepoint	12/27/11 12:39 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/27/11 01:57 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/28/11 05:56 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/28/11 02:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/28/11 06:20 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/28/11 08:56 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/28/11 11:35 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/29/11 04:02 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/29/11 05:50 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BFloat	12/29/11 09:16 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/30/11 01:42 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/30/11 03:27 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/30/11 03:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/30/11 04:02 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/31/11 05:49 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/31/11 10:59 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/31/11 02:53 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/31/11 03:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/31/11 04:47 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BFloat	12/31/11 04:56 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	dbmod	12/31/11 10:35 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/31/11 02:54 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/31/11 02:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:43 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	ericmsant2	12/20/11 09:27 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 10:31 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/26/11 09:55 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/26/11 10:22 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/26/11 11:10 PM

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