You've had a lot of horrible things happen to you in your life. Of course you have fears and insecurities.
The question isn't whether they are valid, THEY ARE.
The question is whether you are going to let them stop you from living the life you want!
Therapy helped. Books give you resources. Meditation is a great resource. But you have to put those resources to use.
There is no underlying problem to resolve. You can't resolve your experiences. What you can change is now. What you can change is how much control over your life you give to them.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2