W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[workinghardguy]

[quote[Doesn't matter what her intentions are. If you're going to be together for your son, then be together for your son.[/quote]

And the corollary is... if you're planning to do Christmas morning with your son then do Christmas morning with your son, with or without your W.

At this point she's left the R/M... so it's not about having you two share a Christmas together. It's about providing your son a Christmas. You can't control the former anyway, so you might as well simply plan on the latter. If she joins in, great... if not, c'est la vie!