Luv... sorry about the court date... I can only imagine how hard it must be to be in that adversarial situation across from someone who is that last you want to be adversary.

So you have had no contact with her? Even regarding the kids?

Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD