Oh Bea, I do believe the man is pursuing you just a "wee" bit. Don't be surprised if he comes up with something else. Take it all w/a grain of salt....he's really trying to find a way to bridge the gap w/you. If your door is ajar, trust me, he would attempt to stick at least 5 toes over the threshhold. He's funny...he really is testing the waters w/you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
