"I'm not sure what it is that the other men are providing, I almost want to just say that to her. I will try to figure that out but I really don't know the men and its hard to figure out what my W is missing when the communication is so little."
Maybe you need to start having simple friendly conversations with her first. No R talk at all, but slowly guide the conversations to see what it is she might be looking for.
"I have no idea why all the sudden she has gone cold again in a matter of 2-3 days."
No expectations on your part. Don't bother trying to understand her it will drive you insane. I would give her some time to process things and if she doesn't respond, follow up with her, but not in a way that sounds like it's rushing things.
"We were suppose to do Christmas morning together for our S but I don't know at this point what her intentions are."
Doesn't matter what her intentions are. If you're going to be together for your son, then be together for your son.
"What gives???"
Again, try not to overanalyze things. The only person who knows what's going on is your W and she's confused.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
