The problem is telling a starving man that he can't bread crumbs. LOL.

I've love to get a female perspective on this.

Boundaries or want's or expectations? For me this is hard to discern.

200 yards to someone who hasn't run can be as tough as a mile. For me 200 yards isn't even a warm up.

I still have to confirm things next week.

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.