Confused and alone

[purgatory]

Did we marry the same guy?! Mine dropped the bomb the day after Thanksgiving too and said pretty much the same thing "I don't feel the love anymore. I gave for so many years with nothing in return that I'm just done." (you can check out my long sad story on my thread 'too little too late' in newcomers)

I have received the same advice from the ladies above- Destiny is a veteran on this site and has some great insights!

I am still easing my way into detaching. My H still lives in the house- across the hall in the guest room. So I have to see him everyday, and that makes detaching more of a challenge, but on the days that I really try to do it- I feel better.
I try not to be home when I know he's on his way home from work.
If you can afford it, the YMCA offers 2 hours childcare while you work out, I joined about 6 months ago and it's wonderful. I can't work out for 2 hours, but sometimes I'll just do 30 minutes and then find a chair and read a book for an hour- how often do you get to read a book at home when the kids are always around? They also have great classes available.... just a thought to get you out of the house and getting healthy always helps the confidence level

You have come to the right place. You will find that everyone has similar stories and everyone is willing to offer support and keep you on track. These first few weeks are going to be really hard- make sure you post often so you can get the support that you need.

I'll save you a seat on this crazy roller coaster of emotions!