About the gift, is it something you've done before? (can't remember how old your son is)

I would do it but make sure it is something that would be from "him", not diamond earrings or anything personal. An ornament commemorating his age maybe? A framed photo.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss