DBing against OW...?????

[mishka422]

ITM, it sounds like it went as well as could be expected. I'm glad he didn't get downright ugly.

Yep, he's being a seriously selfish pr!ck. Sorry, that is almost typical. Heck, D is a selfish act. In some cases it's an act of self-preservation which is, indeed, selfish but we are all responsible for our own survival and he must feel on some level that he wouldn't survive otherwise. You seem to be coming to realize that he puts it all back on you so that he can feel more justified in his decision.

I'm really in no frame of mind right now to be helpful, but just know that I am thinking of you and your kids. Be well, and make this Christmas special for only the things you can do for your kids instead of what you can get for them.

HUGS!