Now I find that very interesting. Why would he give you that birth announcement? Sounds like some sort of "testing the waters" or small peace offering sort of thing to me. Or completely forgetting the divorce and thinking " oh maybe she would want to know". Who knows why they pull the stuff they do.
I don't blame you for not caring about his family! AFter 30 years and they cut you out? Oh Bea that's harsh....way harsh.
There will be small attatchments probably for many years for us. And after 30 years Bea.... don't expect so much of yourself. I think the wonderful thing is we can see that when we get irritated or emotional over something that means we still are emotionally attatched in some way, it's just that simple yet we've come so far to grasp that concept!
