Wow! The rest of the story.... So I responded to W via e-mail saying I got her message and would pick up D at said agreed time tomorrow and nothing more. I got a text from mutual friend/landlord reporting that W was having dinner at my residence with her and then later when she left. I was at work during the time.
Apparently W overstayed her welcome; made an excuse to go downstairs where I live to get D's clothing (long story) and spent an extraordinary long time down there. (maybe spying) ?
Then she tells landlord that she Kicked out OM because he made an ultimatum that she either spend more time with him and less with D and her friends or he would leave. She apparently kicked him out.
This almost convinces my theory that W is co-dependant. As she is already seeking my comfort of 2 other guys.
As for me, I am keeping low as I know this is only a hiccup and I will not be the one to hinder her journey by taking her back too soon as I did last year.
I have been GALing pretty good so far, sans the information thrown at me today, but have not let it affect my decision of going back now.
It is funny that she has decided to do this now. I just got done confiding with landlord last night (who is totally on my side and is pro marriage) about my getting closer to getting closer on her choices and that her being like I knew her is dead to me. It is almost like W sensed it and decided to throw a wrench in the system to test me.
(For humorist reasons) I now see the MLC as a zombie. THey were once the loved one you knew and look like them, but aren't them anymore. You have to let them go. They still want to eat your brains/suck your soul, but don't let them.
Remember if an MLC says they want to "pick your brain" that might be a signal to get the heck out! :P
I now have the voice in my head that says "Don't let them pick your brain , Ted." ( My name's not Ted; it just sounded good with the phrase.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
