"My appetite for food was about the same but my appetite for ML increased. W was not into it so went back to smoking."
If you think about it replacing your W with smoking is actually a good financial decision. Smoking may be expensive, but it doesn't come close to the cost of being married.
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11