I like what cat04 says about "the ride." If there is one regret I have about my own behavior in the past few years, it's that I responded so many times to such inane stuff that was usually something meant to push my buttons. Sometimes I feel like the MLCer tries really hard to stay out of contact and then loses it over something random and stupid and uses that as a way to initiate contact. I don't know that they're even conscious of their "button-pushing behavior" all the time, either.

The less we respond, usually, the better for us. Do what you have to and walk away :-)


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying