Originally Posted By: sunshine76
Oh well atleast I get a week to just focus on myself and try to figure out how to get back into the drivers seat of my life. Quite frankly I am tired of feeling like a blindfolded passenger that has no say in where they are going. Maybe it is a good thing that I am getting irritated by this whole situation? Maybe it will help me to begin detaching a little!


Sunshine - This is good.

You may not have a choice at what your partner is doing to your r with her.. but you DO have a choice on how you let your sitch affect you.

The choices are good and bad, positive and negative, promotes growth or stunts it... honestly... they are endless.

Don't be afraid. Get back in the driver's seat. Take back control of your life.

It is only once you get back in control that you can make better decisions.. More loving decisions. It's only then that you can begin working towards creating a better you... and as well know.. creating a better you is the best chance you stand at getting your m back.


M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.