W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Well my W is back to stonewalling me again. She won't even respond to my texts. I told her that I had picked I counselor that I like and that counselor wanted my W to call her to see if she was a right fit for her. I got no response but I figure I would put the ball in her court. I have no idea why all the sudden she has gone cold again in a matter of 2-3 days. This is all too weird.

We were suppose to do Christmas morning together for our S but I don't know at this point what her intentions are.

I swear sometimes I just want to say grow up and act like an adult. Oh well, I guess its back to the limited communication game or something.

I called a mutual friend of my W and I just to ask about one of the guys my W texts that also works at her work. He didn't have much to say about the guy but he did inform me that my W talked with him about approaching me about working on the marriage about a week ago. He had some other good things to say and thought she was realizing the new lifestyle she was living was probably not what she wanted. I was a very interesting conversation to say the least but now she has flip-flopped again and is back to the quiet game again. What gives???