Most folks here say the WAW is hurting on some level and wrestling with their decision(s). I can't see it in my W per se, but I trust that they are right.
Just think of it like how you act as if you aren't hurting around her, she does same. Its a chess game. I wish we could see more emotions from them that gave us a clue they still have doubts. Take what you can get, and hopefully build on it. My W and I started all talk about S, but I started asking about her work day, and it grew from there. I am still shocked she asked me about my work day a few days back, only happened once so far, but I'll take what I can get.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped