Hi In Shock, I have been reading through your posts and I just thought that I would put my two cents in. I am no attorney, but I have been faced with discrimination which seems to be what you are going through right now.
I would try not to let what the attorney you spoke with today get you to worked up. Depending on what state you live in there is no doubt about it that this is not going to be a cookie cutter case, but it also does not mean that you have no rights to your son. You are going to have to dig deeper than most people to find an attorney. I think I would be looking for someone that was familiar with glbt adoption...
For your sake I hope that you don't end up at the Supreme Court, but I wish there were more people out there like you that were willing to fight for their rights.
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11