Ex went away for a week to vacation in Mazatlan. He rarely calls to talk to the kids n won't answer calls. I asked him if he's there with OW. He said hes not and that she was supposed to go but she didn't. I said just be honest because I need to take care of myself. I would rather go visit my family (12 hrs away) and just relax. And I don't feel comfortable spending the holidays w your family if you are w someone else. He says that he's no longer serious w her and he wants us to spend the holidays together. I have been working DB to a T. We have made a lot of progress but this trip set me off!! Mind you he has NO PLANS to come back home and has made that clear. We are just really good friends.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017