Guys,guys,guys,

i wasn't attacking anyone. I was thinking of my own circles of anger and depression. When you get really low, you need the 2x4's but you also want guidance and support.

Tad knows, you guys are his support. He comes on this site for the same reason we do. Why not give him other things to try?
Why not try another approach since he is not listening to your advice?
We want him to focus on himself, right?

Sorry if I offended anyone! It wasn't my intention!