Don't be fooled by what your H says at this point. While it may be convincing to you, it is more important that what he said is convincing to HIM. Most people in MLC tell themselves and themselves that what they are doing is the right thing without truly facing the issue - and in many cases the issue is with THEMSELVES!!!
That is why DB tells you to focus on you. We can only change ourselves and it is up to our spouses to want to change and do so.
So, I say ignore what he says..Listen, but do not place to much emphasis on it right now. Work on you. You have time to demonstrate change in you for you. If your H sees this as real and lasting, he may come along. Keep doing you.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
