Hi purgatory, I know it's hard when we hear our spouses sound so confident and calm in their choice to leave us. One thing that has been helpful for me to remember is that feelings aren't permanent. Just because your H feels this way today, doesn't mean he will feel this way days/months/years down the road. We all change our minds. It's part of being human. Accept that he feels that way right now, but don't take it as gospel and allow yourself to lose hope.


M:12yr
06/11:IDLYA
07/11:Moves out
08/11:PA disc(began in May)
09/11:Moves w OW
10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt
11&12/11: Touchngo w me
1/12: Comes home-PA resumes
2/12: PA disc; PA ends
Today: Piecing