Originally Posted By: exquisitetobe

I find that 2x4's can be harsh and depressing sometimes. We need to hear them but we also need guidance, help in figuring this out.



While I agree in principal, I disagree that one getting their hand held throughout this, or multiple choice questions, can be useful in finding one's own answers....

My post was about Tad not doing his own work.


There can be a distinct difference between a 2x4 , and some brutal honesty, with that difference being how the advice is taken.

These are merely my observations here, based on what I have seen and lived through. They can be taken in whatever context you care to take them in....

I apologize if I offended you in any manner....

Although, I stand by what I said to Tad.