eric- wow. I hadn't asked myself that before: "what does focus on ME look like"...

I haven't done that in a long time. I put my career on hold to follow H around the country for his naval career and I raised 2 kids the whole time. So now, I'm left to start a career...and I'm really nervous about getting back into the workforce (not sure why, just am.) My kids take up most of my focus and energy- not any different from any other mom. I don't have any help to watch them and I don't have a babysitter, so GAL is a challenge.
The things I HAVE been doing to 'focus on me' are:
- planning on a job. researching availabilities/openings
- going to the gym daily (the YMCA has a daycare for the kids while I work out) Even though I can't to intensive stuff, it's nice to get out of the house and read a book while on the treadmill (I only read my 'fun' books, no R books during this time)

that' about all I have been doing.... not much. I'm not sure what else I should be doing.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12