kml, my best friend was in the same situation as Barb. And it took her bf a year and a half to say ILY back to her. Not because he didn't, but because he was terrified of what it would mean, how it would change their R, that she'd want to get engaged or something crazy. His issues and nothing to do with her.

It does happen. It is possible. And I think it's important to keep an open mind and consider the possibilities.

Keep the conversation going Mishka. His actions say he's there, he didn't leave you to cry on your own or pretend he didn't see. He obviously cares. You don't know a lot about what's going on in his head because it's not on the discussion list. Maybe it's time to start building ladders for those walls.

Tackle some of these conversations. Prove to yourself you can do it. Then keep doing it!

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
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