Again, please don't make the mistake I did and fizzle on the GAL'g. It is the one things that helps you and possibly your M. Stay strong!!
And I would only add....detach...detach...detach...
Make this about YOU not him. Focus on YOU.
That said, let me ask you a question Purgatory....what does focus on you mean to YOU?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans